Diethyl ether or tetrahydrofuran (another ether) are often used as solvents in the Grignard reaction. This is because they can coordinate to the
magnesium metal centre and help solvate the Grignard reagent.
Since the amount of solvent is typically many times the molar scale of the reaction, it is usually in huge excess and so the quantity of ether that
coordinates to the Grignard reagent is irrelevant. The other advantage of using a low boiling point solvent like diethyl ether is that it is very low
boiling (~35°C) and so can easily dissipate and regulate the temperature of the reaction - the formation of the Grignard reagent is typically quite
exothermic. |